The ladies should return the favor as will. Marriage should be a mutual relationship between a man and a women. Be honest, up front, and caring, respected each others space and needs. Healthy relationships are hard work, I know because I’ve been in many relationships. I can truly say that to love is a wonderful thing, but to love oneself is a beautiful gorgeous thing and a better way to start out. Plus to love someone else, you need to learn how to love yourself first. I also learned you can’t count on someone else to make you happy, only you can do that for yourself. What if that someone went away? Or you were alone in the woods somewhere? Who would be there to make you happy then? You right.
“Live on your own teams, to your own drum beat, and for your own happiness.”